greenchestnuts:

acesecrets:

[IMAGE: A woman wearing a strapless wedding dress]
[TEXT: It sounds silly, the hardest part of coming to terms with my aromanticism was accepting that I will never have a wedding.
I wish I could have a platonic marriage.]

I’ve been planning my wedding since I was a little girl, and it hurts to think that I will never get to experience it, that I will never get to put any of these plans in motion. I can’t even use my plans for any of my friends weddings, because a lot of it was symbolic and wouldn’t really apply to anyone else.

Maybe it will get easier someday, but right now it makes me want to cry.

You could still have a wedding! It doesn’t have to be legally binding. If you find a platonic partner, ask if they’ll not-marry you!

I would totes have a platonic marriage! Where else am I going to get all my kitchen tools (*cough* KitchenAid mixer *cough*) and three cappuccino machines from?